Discipline is the least under-stood word in the world. The purpose of discipline is simply to be able to guide the expressions of the mind.
We know how the mind functions. We know that it becomes easily distracted, that it is subject to likes and dislikes, that it has very strong ideas, emotions, convictions and beliefs. We know that it is subject to the gunas – sattwa, rajas and tamas, and that when the mind is influencedonly by its own behaviour, it functions in a very erratic way, without clarity. The role of discipline is to condition the mind so that it is connected with positivity and creativity.
Normally we may wish to become positive and creative, but our mental conditioning does not allow it. There are too many distractions; there is a continual struggle with oneself. Disciplining ourselves means choosing to encourage and support our own inner peaceful nature, rather than the greedy acquired and acquisitive nature we habitually use in interactions.
Discipline can be definedas the ability to observe the mind and make it still. But to begin with, in order to become more sensitive so that we can perceive our mental behaviour and realize the nature of the mind, we have to follow disciplines that are imposed upon us from outside. Why? Because eventually these disciplines create a conducive environment in our personality.
Mouna is a regular discipline in ashram life. Mouna has a very simple meaning – silence – but at first it is very difficult to practise. As long as the mind is not practising mouna, as long as it is continuing to chatter, we will be forced to chatter amongst ourselves also. But when the mind becomes relaxed and quiet, then mouna becomes natural, spontaneous and easy, and we begin to observe the restless nature of the mind from our own peaceful centre. That is one example of how an external, imposed condition can help to improve the quality of our self-perception and understanding, so that we can manage the mind.
How we take to such a discipline, whether it will help us or hamper us, and how far we progress on such a path, is up to us. But the purpose of all yogic discipline is to make us realize the nature, the attitudes and the behaviour of the mind. Being subject to the influencesof the mind is the normal state of behaviour, but when we are able to direct the mind according to our wishes and choices, that is known as discipline, and it leads to the subtle disciplines of yoga.
Throughout our life we do as our mind demands, according to likes and dislikes, wisdom or ignorance, maturity or immaturity. But simply following the nature of the mind leads to distraction and dissipation. Those who have been able to control and guide the mind say that discipline is important in order to reclaim inner peace and contentment and to express creativity and wisdom.
From this perspective, discipline simply represents management of the mind. In Patanjali’s Yoga Sutras, the first sutra is Atha yogah anushasanam, meaning “Now, the subtle disciplines of yoga.” This sutra gives the direction in which yoga moves to provide the ability to observe and direct the mind with wisdom, knowledge and understanding. Ultimately, discipline is an expression of harmonized emotions and attitudes in a balanced personality.
In order to create this condition we have to start by regulating the lifestyle and mental behaviour. We need to understand what is appropriate or inappropriate for our development and growth and for the environment in which we live. Then we can improve the expressions of our personality, our interactions and behaviour.
How is discipline important for success in life?
If you want to succeed in life, you have to gear your personality to excel in your situation or environment. If you want to create good music on a stringed instrument, it is necessary to tune the strings first. If you want to get good sound from a drum, you have to tighten it. If you want to excel in life, you have to focus yourself to achieve your purpose. That effort is discipline.
Subtle discipline is not something which is imposed from outside. External imposition gives a routine, not discipline. Daily routine and discipline are two different things. Discipline expresses itself in the way you think – how you think, what you think, whether it is negative or positive, right or wrong, detrimental or constructive. It is expressed in what you say and how you say it. It is expressed in actions, in behaviour, in all the dimensions of life.
The aim of discipline is to lead you to sanyam, where discipline and self-restraint become balanced and spontaneous. Discipline and sanyam are the beginning and the fulfilmentof the same principle. Sanyam starts with discipline, especially the effort to guide your moods and expressions so they are positive, creative and constructive.
A simple example is when you have to live and work with other people. Each person may have the same aim and focus, but still there is conflict, differences of interest and disagreements. What is the priority here? The vision we have in common or the personal relationships which can fare up and subside in a moment? Usually, the personal interaction takes priority and that momentary fare up can make us dislike or hate the other person, not for a short while but for a long time. It takes precedence over our shared aims and vision and continues to affect our behaviour.
If each one of us beats our own drum and blows our own trumpet without any thought for rhythm and harmony, what kind of ruckus will we create? But if we play in tune with each other, we will create a very beautiful and powerful symphony. The creation of this symphony is the aim of discipline – in thought, in attitude, in behaviour, in belief, in action, in participation, in being happy, optimistic and dynamic. These are the symphonies of life.
For example, if you break the rules while you are staying in the ashram, it makes no difference to the ashram environment, because no one person makes the ashram environment. However, the environment can make a difference to you. If you disregard the rules, it means you are not utilizing your time as training. It really shows, not a disregard for the rules, but a disregard for yourself, a lack of conviction and faith in yourself. It is caused because you lack the perception to realize the nature of the process. So who is the loser?
If this lack of self-perception remains, you will not be successful, no matter where you are or what you do, because you lack faith in your own mental strength. But you have that strength, so why lack the faith? The moment you start believing in yourself, you will see a great transformation come over your life. Believe in yourself, believe in what you do. Believe in what you stand for if you want to be happy and successful in life.
However you may want to explain it, every expression of personality and behaviour, when disciplined, becomes more simple, constructive and beautiful. Disregarding the concept of sanyam or self-restraint represents weak willpower, an unclear mind and lack of inner strength. When you have sanyam, you are free, you experience joy, happiness and expansiveness, and other people are uplifted.
—Printed in YOGA Vol. 4, Issue 11 (November 2005)